The feeling matters
The vibe, the intent, the ambience, the energy ... however you want to phrase it, the feeling matters.
Please don't hear that as the thoughts and words don't, as they really do, there's an interplay ... a dance if you like ... where it's more
effective, enjoyable to experience and beautiful to watch when the feeling takes the lead.
OK, let me back up a bit.
If you're not always sure of what you are feeling please know that this can be completely normal. Also, be onto yourself to see if that is
really true. If you sense or experience a situation that feels 'off' to you, that something is not quite right, feels uncomfortable, makes you
fidgety, that you want to distract yourself with something else then these are all indications that taking a closer look would be valuable to
you. Equally if something is at the other end of the 'stick' (I love a bit of high-tech jargon!) and feels great, amazing, joyful, time flies
by it's also worth taking notice of.
With that said 'feeling the feels' is a very valuable life skill that anyone can learn, even if you don't think in this moment that it's
possible for you.
So, why does the feeling matter?